Stay Humble When Networking: A Lesson for Rappers

 

I wanted to drop some thoughts on keeping it humble when networking, especially with industry folks who might not seem tied to rap at first glance. I heard a story about a well-known Detroit rapper who tanked a huge opportunity by being flippant and rude to a major music exec because he didn’t recognize them. That’s a cautionary tale we can all learn from.

When you’re grinding and meeting new people in the industry, you never know who’s who. That “random” person at an event might be a producer, label exec, or someone with serious connections outside of rap—like in pop, film, or even tech. Brushing them off or acting too big for the room can burn bridges you didn’t even know were there. Here’s why humility pays off and some tips to keep it real:

• Everyone’s a Potential Ally: Rap doesn’t exist in a vacuum. Collabs with other genres (pop, rock, electronic) or industries (film scores, gaming) can elevate your career. Stay open and respectful, even if someone’s vibe feels “outside” rap.
• Do Your Homework: Before events, research who’s attending. A quick Google or X search can clue you into names or faces that matter. But even if you don’t know someone, treat them like they could be a game-changer.
• Listen More, Talk Less: Humility means letting others share their story before you flex. Ask questions, show interest, and don’t assume you’re the biggest deal in the room.
• Own Your Mistakes: If you mess up and come off arrogant, apologize sincerely. A genuine follow-up can sometimes save a connection.

For example, dismissing someone because they don’t “look” like they’re in rap could mean missing out on a plug to a streaming platform, a sync deal, or even a mentor. That Detroit rapper? He could’ve been working with a legend but let ego get in the way.

What’s your take? Have y’all had moments where staying humble opened doors or where ego tripped you up? Share your stories—I’m tryna hear how y’all navigate this!

TL;DR: Stay humble when networking, even with folks who seem outside rap. You never know who’s got the keys to your next big move. Don’t be like that Detroit rapper who dissed a major exec and fumbled the bag.